Made by Dyslexia

In Chandana Singh’s Own Words — from JYNM: “Dyslexia, Schooling & Self-Worth”

“Made by dyslexia — creative, intelligent, resilient, team workers, and absolutely an
asset. Come join my team.”
— Chandana Singh

I practiced law in the Bombay and Delhi High Courts before a personal experience with dyslexia sent me
back to school myself — this time to complete a special education course, and eventually to found
Advocacy for Dyslexia and help set up Ashoka University’s Office of Learning Support.

I’ve worked in the learning-disabilities field for roughly twenty years now. Accommodation is not an
advantage — it is access. That distinction is the center of almost everything I do.

1. What Dyslexia Is, and the Myths I Most Want Gone

Dyslexia, alongside dysgraphia and dyscalculia — together, specific learning disabilities — comes from the brain being differently wired, with no effect on intelligence. I systematically debunk the myths: dyslexic students aren’t lazy or dumb, IQ is typically average to above average, and the real diagnostic red flag is the gap between ability and performance. It’s not poor eyesight, and it can’t be cured by diet. It’s a lifelong condition to be navigated, not fixed. The film “Taare Zameen Par” created a genuine before-and-after shift in Indian public understanding — I still remember an educator telling a parent in the school, after watching this movie “Oh! I now understand what you are speaking about – your child seems to have the same problem as the boy in the movie!”

2. Three Real Cases That Show What Stigma Actually Costs

An engineering-bound student whose dyslexia affected only reading and English, while his math, physics, and music were exceptional. A student who needed to read a page ten to twelve times to fully grasp it, until his parents began reading chapters aloud, cutting a four-hour homework session to thirty minutes with identical comprehension. A high-achieving girl under intense parental academic pressure who studied eight to nine hours daily, developed severe spelling errors, but wasn’t tested for a learning disability until medical college — despite the toll it took throughout her schooling. Because dyslexia is a hidden disability, stigma stops students from seeking help, causing them to fall further behind — a vicious cycle that can lead to dropping out entirely.

3. The Glasses Analogy: Accommodation Isn’t an Advantage

Remediation is ongoing skill-building; accommodations — extra time, reader-writer support, spelling concessions — simply bring a student at par with peers, not ahead of them. Wearing glasses doesn’t advantage someone who needs them over someone who doesn’t; it just lets them see like everyone else. School carries the heaviest support burden because of exam pressure and dependency on parents; by the workforce, tools like AI and delegated tasks make things far easier — I know a senior managing director in his mid-forties who still dictates his emails to an assistant, decades into a successful career.

4. My A-C-T Framework for Parents

Acceptance — genuinely accepting the learning need, not just tolerating it. Compassion — for the child, and for yourself as a parent, since you should expect to drop a few balls. Training — educating yourself about the condition. Parents must proactively meet every subject teacher and the school’s learning support staff at the start of each academic year, without becoming helicopter parents, because a child’s own capacity to self-advocate typically only becomes realistic in college. Helping set up Ashoka’s Office of Learning Support taught me the model: a dedicated physical space staffed by trained special educators and counselors who build individualized plans and liaise with faculty — finding enough trained, genuinely empathetic staff is the single biggest bottleneck any institution faces.

Tools & Strategies

  • Formal accommodations — extra time, reader-writer support, spelling concessions, audiobooks, to bring students to parity, not advantage.
  • The A-C-T framework — Acceptance, Compassion, Training, as a self-check for parents before advocating for a child.
  • A dedicated Learning Support Center — coordinating between student, parents, and subject teachers.
  • Early testing triggered by an ability-performance gap — ideally starting around grades three to eight, not waiting for a crisis.

Life may seem difficult, but it is possible to dream big and achieve big. Understanding can start with a small conversation. It’s now time to act — A, C, T: acceptance, compassion, and training.


Listen to the full episode: youtube.com/watch?v=ATen4yCce1Q

Topics covered: #Dyslexia #LearningDisabilities #SLD #InclusiveEducation #AshokaUniversity #NeurodivergentStudents

What Is Dyslexia? (Not What You Think)

By The Misfit Collaborative

Most people think they know what dyslexia is. They picture a child who reverses letters — b for d, p for q — or who reads words backwards. They imagine “saw” read as “was,” or “dog” as “god.”

These things can happen. But they are not what dyslexia is.

Letter reversal is common in young children and usually resolves as literacy develops. It is not a reliable sign of dyslexia, and its absence does not rule dyslexia out. The actual picture is both more fundamental and more interesting than the reversal myth suggests — and understanding it correctly is the difference between support that helps and support that doesn’t.

What dyslexia actually is

Dyslexia is a neurological difference in how the brain processes written language. Specifically, it is rooted in difficulties with phonological processing — the ability to hear, manipulate, and work with the sound units (phonemes) that make up spoken words.

Reading, in any alphabetic language, requires the reader to map written letters and letter combinations to the sounds they represent. This mapping process is called phonics. It’s not natural — humans evolved for speech, not for reading — and it requires explicit instruction.

For most children, that instruction takes hold reasonably quickly. The brain builds the neural pathway that connects print to sound to meaning, and reading becomes increasingly automatic.

For a child with dyslexia, building that pathway is genuinely harder. The phonological processing difficulty means the mapping doesn’t come easily — and when decoding (converting print to sound) remains effortful, the cognitive resources that should be going to comprehension are being consumed by the mechanics of reading instead.

The result is a child who reads slowly, makes errors that don’t look like careless mistakes, struggles to sound out unfamiliar words, and often can’t keep up with reading-dependent subjects at school.

What dyslexia is not

It is not a vision problem. The letter reversals are not because the eyes are seeing things incorrectly. They reflect the difficulty of holding and retrieving the correct letter-sound mappings — a phonological and orthographic issue, not a visual one. Vision therapy for dyslexia is not supported by the evidence.

It is not low intelligence. Dyslexia is entirely independent of IQ. Many highly intelligent people have dyslexia — engineers, scientists, entrepreneurs, writers. In fact, many people with dyslexia develop significant strengths in areas that don’t rely on phonological processing: visual-spatial thinking, narrative reasoning, big-picture pattern recognition.

It is not laziness or lack of effort. A child with dyslexia trying to read is working harder than a non-dyslexic child reading the same text — and producing less. The discrepancy is not because of effort. It is because the underlying process is genuinely more demanding.

It is not something the child will grow out of. Dyslexia is lifelong. With excellent instruction and support, reading accuracy and fluency can improve significantly. The underlying phonological processing difference remains. Adults with dyslexia develop workarounds and often read competently — but it continues to take more effort than it does for most people.

What it looks like at different ages

Early childhood (4–6): Difficulty learning nursery rhymes, persistent trouble with rhyming, slow to learn letter names and sounds, struggles to blend sounds into words.

Primary school (6–10): Significantly slower reading development than peers, frequent errors in reading that don’t reflect carelessness (reading “house” as “horse,” for instance), poor spelling that doesn’t improve with practice, avoidance of reading tasks, difficulty copying from the board.

Middle school (10–14): Reading fluency significantly below grade level, or reading fluency achieved but at significant effort cost — the child reads accurately but slowly, and comprehension suffers because the decoding is using too many cognitive resources. Spelling remains a persistent difficulty. Written work reflects less of the child’s knowledge than verbal responses do.

Adolescence and adulthood: The gap between verbal intelligence and written performance remains. Exam formats that privilege timed written output are disproportionately challenging. Adults with dyslexia often gravitate toward careers that leverage their other strengths and minimise reading demands — or develop compensatory strategies that work but cost energy.

How dyslexia is identified

Psychoeducational assessment — typically by an educational psychologist — is the route to identification. Assessment looks at phonological processing, reading accuracy, reading fluency, spelling, and the relationship between these and broader cognitive ability.

In India, dyslexia falls under Specific Learning Disabilities in the RPwD Act 2016. Students with a formal diagnosis are entitled to accommodations in board examinations — including extra time, use of scribes, and reader provisions. Access to diagnosis varies enormously by geography, school type, and family resources.

What actually helps

The single most important thing: structured literacy instruction.

Structured literacy is explicit, systematic phonics instruction that teaches the letter-sound relationships that dyslexic readers cannot acquire incidentally. It’s taught directly, in sequence, with repetition and multisensory reinforcement. The most well-known approach is Orton-Gillingham; there are many programmes derived from it.

This is not the same as “reading practice” or “re-reading the book.” Exposure to text does not build the phonological processing skills that dyslexia affects. Targeted, systematic instruction in phonics does.

Other things that help:

  • Extra time in assessments, which allows the additional processing time that reading requires
  • Audio support — audiobooks, text-to-speech technology — which allows access to curriculum content without the bottleneck of decoding
  • Typing over handwriting where spelling and text production is assessed separately from physical writing
  • Explicit vocabulary and comprehension instruction alongside decoding — dyslexic readers often have significant comprehension strengths that are masked by decoding difficulty

The strengths side of the picture

This matters and is worth saying clearly: dyslexia is associated with a set of cognitive characteristics that are genuinely useful.

The Eide brothers’ research (see our Dyslexia Books list) identifies consistent strengths in visual-spatial reasoning, big-picture thinking, narrative reasoning, and dynamic reasoning — the ability to predict how systems and situations will unfold over time. Many people with dyslexia are exceptional at exactly the kind of thinking that competitive examinations don’t measure.

This is not a consolation prize. It is neuroscience. Understanding the full profile — the difficulty alongside the strength — produces better outcomes than understanding either half alone.

A note on India

In Indian schools, reading load is heavy, class sizes are large, and the adult-to-child ratio rarely allows for the individual attention that identifying early reading difficulty requires. Many dyslexic children arrive at secondary school having never been formally identified — having instead accumulated years of being told they’re not trying, not concentrating, or simply not academic.

Those years matter. The research on early intervention in dyslexia is clear: the earlier it happens, the better the outcomes. Children who don’t receive structured reading instruction until secondary school can still make significant progress — but the window of easiest intervention has passed.

Knowing what to look for is how you catch it early.

Wondering what dyslexia identification and support could look like in your school? We’d love to talk.

The Misfit Collaborative works with Indian schools and families on building real understanding and practical support for dyslexia and other specific learning differences.

What Is Dysgraphia? (And Why “Just Write Neater” Is the Wrong Answer)

By The Misfit Collaborative

Writing is the most cognitively demanding thing we ask children to do in school. Think about what it actually requires: planning what to say, holding it in working memory, translating thoughts into language, converting words into spelling, converting spelling into letter forms, coordinating the hand to produce those forms, doing all of this while simultaneously keeping track of where you are in the argument.

For most children, most of this becomes automatic over time. For a child with dysgraphia, it doesn’t — or doesn’t fully. Writing remains a slow, effortful, physically uncomfortable process long after peers have stopped thinking about the mechanics. And the standard response — “slow down,” “try neater,” “you can do this when you concentrate” — adds pressure to a system that is already at capacity.

What dysgraphia is

Dysgraphia is a specific learning difference affecting the ability to write. It is neurological in origin — a genuine difference in how the brain processes the physical and cognitive demands of writing — and it is distinct from low intelligence, poor effort, or inadequate instruction.

The Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) in the US classifies it as a specific learning disability in written expression. In India, it falls under the umbrella of Specific Learning Disabilities (SLD) in the RPwD Act 2016.

Dysgraphia affects some combination of:

  • The mechanical act of writing — the physical movement of the hand, grip, letter formation, spacing, and line orientation
  • Spelling — persistent difficulty with spelling that doesn’t resolve with practice in the way it does for most children
  • Written expression — organising thoughts into written form, even when verbal expression of the same thoughts is clear and coherent
  • Writing speed — significantly slower output than peers, not because of slower thinking but because of the cognitive and physical cost of the process

What it looks like

Not all children with dysgraphia look the same. Some have very poor handwriting; some have handwriting that is acceptable when they concentrate but inconsistent and slow. Some struggle primarily with spelling; some with the organisation of ideas on paper; some with all of it.

Common patterns include:

Illegible or inconsistent handwriting. Letters formed incorrectly, inconsistently, or with visible effort. The child may press very hard, hold the pencil awkwardly, or complain that their hand hurts.

Mixing upper and lower case. Not carelessness — a genuine difficulty with the automatisation of letter forms.

Inconsistent spelling. Spelling the same word three different ways in the same piece of writing. Not because they’ve forgotten — because the orthographic representations aren’t stable.

Very slow writing speed. Taking much longer than peers to produce the same amount of text. This matters enormously in timed assessments.

A significant gap between verbal and written output. The child who talks brilliantly and writes poorly is not being lazy. They are experiencing the gap between what their brain can hold and what their hand can produce.

Avoidance of writing tasks. Not laziness — a reasonable response to repeated failure and frustration. The child who avoids writing has usually learnt that writing is the thing they fail at.

Fatigue. Writing for extended periods is physically and cognitively exhausting for a child with dysgraphia in a way that it isn’t for most peers.

How it’s different from “just bad handwriting”

The distinction is in persistence and pervasiveness.

A child with poor handwriting who benefits from explicit instruction and practice and improves over time does not have dysgraphia. A child whose handwriting remains significantly impaired despite instruction and effort, whose difficulty extends to spelling and written expression, and who shows a significant gap between their verbal and written capability — that is a different picture.

Dysgraphia is also not about intelligence. Many children with dysgraphia are intellectually advanced and may be identified as twice-exceptional (gifted and neurodivergent). Their ideas are sophisticated; the bottleneck is in getting those ideas through the writing process and onto the page.

What it isn’t

It isn’t a behaviour problem. The child who refuses to write is not being defiant — they are avoiding something that is genuinely difficult and often painful.

It isn’t a result of too little practice. More handwriting practice for a child with dysgraphia produces more frustration, not better handwriting. The difficulty is neurological; repetition without targeted support doesn’t change the underlying processing.

It isn’t something the child will grow out of without support. Dysgraphia is persistent. Adults with dysgraphia develop workarounds — they type, they dictate, they avoid written formats — but the underlying difficulty doesn’t resolve on its own.

What actually helps

Occupational therapy. OT targeting the specific fine motor and motor planning difficulties can significantly improve writing efficiency — not by curing dysgraphia, but by building the automatic processes that reduce the cognitive load of writing.

Keyboard access. Typing removes the motor planning demands of handwriting and often reveals the intellectual capability that poor handwriting was concealing. For many children with dysgraphia, switching to keyboard input is transformative. Schools often resist this; the research supports it.

Explicit instruction in spelling. Not more copying, but structured, multisensory spelling instruction (programmes like Orton-Gillingham or structured literacy approaches) that builds stable orthographic representations.

Explicit instruction in writing structure. The Hochman Method (The Writing Revolution) is particularly effective — it breaks writing into its smallest teachable components and builds from sentences before paragraphs.

Accommodations in assessment. Extra time, scribes, use of computers, or oral examination alternatives where appropriate. Under the RPwD Act, students with a formal diagnosis are entitled to these accommodations in board examinations.

Reducing the handwriting load elsewhere. A child whose writing capacity is at maximum during writing tasks cannot simultaneously produce quality content. Reducing handwriting demands in other subjects (allowing typed notes, printed handouts, verbal responses) preserves cognitive resources for the tasks where handwriting genuinely matters.

A note on India

Indian schools lean heavily on written output: note-copying, written assessments, dictation, board examinations. The system disadvantages children with dysgraphia at almost every turn — not intentionally, but structurally.

The RPwD Act offers recourse, but only for children with a formal diagnosis — which requires access to psychoeducational assessment that is not universally available or affordable. Many children with dysgraphia navigate their entire school career without the support they’re entitled to, because nobody has named what they’re experiencing.

Naming it is the first step.

Looking for support understanding dysgraphia in an Indian school context? Get in touch.

The Misfit Collaborative works with schools and families to understand and support children with specific learning differences — including the ones that look like effort problems but aren’t.

Why So Many Learning Differences Travel Together

By The Misfit Collaborative

Here is something that surprises a lot of parents when they start learning about their child’s profile: the learning difference their child was diagnosed with is often not the only one.

ADHD and dyslexia frequently co-occur. Dyslexia and dyspraxia travel together. Autism and ADHD — once thought to be mutually exclusive in the diagnostic framework — are now known to co-occur in a significant portion of people. Sensory processing difficulties show up alongside almost everything.

This is not a coincidence. It reflects something real about how neurodevelopmental differences are distributed in the brain — and understanding it changes how you think about assessment, support, and the child in front of you.

Why do learning differences co-occur so often?

The short answer is that neurodevelopmental conditions share genetic and neurological roots. They are not separate categories that happen to bump into each other occasionally. They are overlapping expressions of the same underlying differences in brain development.

Research on what’s sometimes called the “p factor” in psychiatry — a general factor underlying many neurodevelopmental and mental health conditions — suggests that a significant amount of what we label as separate diagnoses reflects different presentations of the same underlying neurodivergence, filtered through different cognitive profiles, different environments, and different life experiences.

This doesn’t mean the distinctions are meaningless. ADHD and autism are meaningfully different profiles in many ways. But it does explain why they co-occur so frequently — and why finding one should prompt looking for others.

Common co-occurring pairs (and clusters)

ADHD and dyslexia. Co-occur in approximately 30–40% of people with either diagnosis. Both affect reading fluency and sustained attention, and they can be difficult to disentangle without careful assessment. The working memory and processing speed difficulties in ADHD contribute to reading difficulty in ways that can look like dyslexia — and vice versa.

ADHD and dyspraxia (DCD). Co-occur in around 50% of DCD cases. Both affect executive function and motor planning, and the combined profile creates significant challenges with handwriting, organisation, and self-management.

ADHD and autism. Until 2013, the DSM explicitly excluded co-diagnosis of ADHD and autism. The DSM-5 removed that exclusion, reflecting overwhelming clinical and research evidence that the two co-occur in a substantial proportion of autistic people — estimates vary from 30–80% depending on how autism is defined. The combined profile looks different from either alone and requires a more nuanced approach to support.

Autism and anxiety. Co-occur in up to 50% of autistic people. Anxiety is sometimes a feature of autism (the sensory demands of navigating a world not designed for you are inherently stressful) and sometimes a co-occurring condition. The distinction matters for treatment.

Dyslexia and dyspraxia. Share a significant genetic overlap and frequently co-occur, particularly in children who have phonological processing difficulties alongside motor coordination difficulties.

Sensory processing difficulties and autism/ADHD. Sensory differences are now included in the DSM-5 autism criteria and are extremely common in ADHD as well. For many neurodivergent children, sensory processing difficulties are as significant as any labelled condition — and often go unaddressed because they’re not the diagnosis.

The assessment problem

Most psychological assessments are designed to identify one or two specific conditions. A referral for “dyslexia assessment” typically produces information about dyslexia — not necessarily about the ADHD that’s also there, or the DCD that’s also there, or the anxiety that’s driving half the school refusal.

This creates a partial picture. Parents leave with one piece of the puzzle and wonder why the support for that piece isn’t working as well as they hoped.

Comprehensive psychoeducational assessment — looking across the full range of possible learning and developmental differences — is more expensive and more time-consuming than targeted assessment. In India, where specialist assessment is already limited and expensive, comprehensive evaluation is often not accessible. Many children are assessed for the most visible or most academically impairing difficulty and the rest goes unidentified.

This matters because the co-occurring profile changes the intervention. A child with dyslexia alone responds differently to reading intervention than a child with dyslexia and ADHD. A child with autism alone needs different support than a child with autism and anxiety and sensory processing difficulties. Getting the full picture is not bureaucratic over-identification — it’s necessary for understanding what will actually help.

The presentation problem

Co-occurring profiles can mask each other in ways that complicate identification.

A highly anxious autistic child may appear to have ADHD because the anxiety is driving distractibility and avoidance that looks like inattention. A child with dyspraxia may appear to have ADHD because the executive function difficulties in DCD overlap so significantly with ADHD. A 2e child (gifted and neurodivergent) may appear to have none of these things because their intelligence is compensating for all of them.

Getting this wrong isn’t a failure of effort — it’s a consequence of diagnostic systems that were designed to identify conditions in isolation and are now being applied to people whose profiles are rarely that clean.

What this means in practice

For parents: if your child has been diagnosed with one learning difference and is still significantly struggling despite appropriate support, it’s worth asking whether there’s more to the picture. A co-occurring profile that hasn’t been identified is often what’s in the gap.

For schools: support plans built around a single diagnosis often fail children with co-occurring profiles. A child who has dyslexia accommodations but no support for the ADHD that’s also present is not fully supported.

For clinicians and assessors: a comprehensive developmental history, broad assessment across domains, and willingness to consider multiple simultaneous profiles produces better outcomes than diagnostic parsimony applied to conditions that are neurologically linked.

For neurodivergent adults making sense of their own history: the multiple things you’ve always known about yourself — the reading difficulty, the coordination challenges, the sensory sensitivities, the social differences — may all be parts of the same picture. Finding language for each of them separately is useful. Understanding that they’re related is often a deeper relief.

A diagnosis is not a ceiling — it’s a doorway. Getting the right diagnosis, or the right combination of them, opens access to understanding and support that changes what the rest of school (and life) looks like.

If you’re trying to build assessment and support processes that account for co-occurring profiles, we’d love to work with you.

The Misfit Collaborative works with Indian schools and families on building nuanced, whole-child understanding of neurodivergent profiles — including the complex ones.

What Is Auditory Processing Disorder? (It’s Not About Hearing)

By The Misfit Collaborative

The child passes a hearing test. The audiologist confirms their hearing is fine. And yet they can’t follow what the teacher says. They mishear instructions constantly. They need things repeated. In noisy environments, they seem to shut down entirely.

Auditory Processing Disorder — APD — is one of the most frequently missed and most frequently misunderstood learning differences, because the obvious explanation (“they can’t hear properly”) turns out not to be the explanation at all.

So what is it?

APD is a condition in which the ears work fine — the sound gets in — but the brain has difficulty processing what it hears accurately and efficiently.

Think of it like this: hearing is the hardware, auditory processing is the software. A child with APD has working hardware. The software has a bug.

Specifically, the brain struggles with one or more of these tasks:

  • Distinguishing between similar sounds — hearing “pin” and “bin” as the same, for instance, or mishearing “sixty” as “sixteen”
  • Understanding speech in noise — in a quiet room, fine; in a classroom with 30 children, the signal-to-noise problem becomes overwhelming
  • Following rapid speech — when someone speaks at normal speed, the brain can’t keep up with segmenting and processing each word
  • Locating where sound is coming from — auditory localisation difficulties mean a child can’t tell if the teacher is speaking from the front or the back of the room
  • Remembering what was heard — auditory memory difficulties, so verbal instructions vanish almost immediately

What does it look like in a classroom?

A child with APD in school might:

  • Ask for instructions to be repeated frequently — and still get it wrong
  • Follow along fine in one-to-one conversation but seem confused in group settings
  • Do significantly better when information is written down rather than spoken
  • Appear distracted or “zoned out” in lessons that are primarily verbal
  • Have difficulty with phonics and reading that seems inconsistent with their general ability
  • Misunderstand social situations because they’ve misheard what was said
  • Become exhausted by environments that require sustained listening — like a full school day

The classic teacher response: “They hear what they want to hear.” Which is frustrating to hear if your child is genuinely working twice as hard as everyone else just to catch half the information.

How is it different from ADHD?

This is a common point of confusion, because the surface behaviour of a child with APD can look a lot like ADHD: difficulty following instructions, appearing distracted, inconsistent performance. The two can also co-occur.

The distinction is in the underlying cause. A child with ADHD has attention regulation difficulties — they can hear the instruction; holding attention on it is the challenge. A child with APD may have perfectly good attention — but what they’re attending to is a degraded or incomplete version of what was actually said.

Getting this wrong matters for intervention. Attention training won’t fix an auditory processing problem. And the child who is told to “listen more carefully” when they are already straining to hear is being failed.

How is APD identified?

APD is assessed by an audiologist — specifically, one trained in auditory processing evaluation, which is not all audiologists. Standard hearing tests are not sufficient. APD assessment typically involves a battery of tests in various listening conditions, looking at the specific pattern of processing difficulty.

Awareness of APD among paediatricians, school counsellors, and teachers in India is still limited. Many children who have it have never had the possibility raised, because the adults around them don’t know the term.

What actually helps?

Classroom acoustics matter enormously. Hard floors, high ceilings, and rooms full of children are the worst possible acoustic environment for a child with APD. Where possible: carpets, soft surfaces, reduced reverberation.

Preferential seating — close to the teacher, away from windows and doors, with a direct sightline for lip-reading cues.

Visual support for verbal information — writing key words on the board, providing written instructions alongside verbal ones, using visual timetables.

Reducing background noise — FM systems (where the teacher wears a microphone that transmits directly to a receiver near the child) are highly effective and used routinely in Western schools; they’re not yet common in India but are available.

Explicit teaching in verbal environments — pre-teaching vocabulary, chunking instructions, checking comprehension (not just “did you hear?” but “can you tell me what we’re doing?”).

Time — processing is slower; building in wait time before expecting a response reduces errors dramatically.

A note on India

Indian classrooms are loud. Large class sizes, tile floors, ceiling fans, open windows, and the ambient noise of a building full of children all compound the auditory environment that a child with APD is trying to navigate. The standard classroom layout — teacher at the front, rows of desks, verbal instruction as the primary mode of teaching — is not built for APD.

None of this is a reason to give up. Simple modifications make a real difference. But they require adults who know what APD is and why it matters — which is still far from universal.

Want to understand how your school’s environment affects children with auditory processing differences? Let’s talk.

The Misfit Collaborative works with schools and families across India on practical approaches to learning differences, from environmental design to classroom teaching.

What Is Dyspraxia? Understanding Developmental Coordination Disorder

By The Misfit Collaborative

Dyspraxia — formally called Developmental Coordination Disorder, or DCD — is one of the most commonly missed learning differences in schools. Partly because the name suggests it’s purely about movement (it isn’t). Partly because the children who have it often compensate so hard that the difficulty goes unnoticed for years. And partly because the things dyspraxia affects — organisation, handwriting, getting dressed, carrying a tray in the cafeteria — tend to be read as carelessness or immaturity rather than as a specific neurological pattern.

This is a post about what DCD actually is, what it looks like in children and adults, and why the “they’ll grow out of it” response is usually wrong.

What is Developmental Coordination Disorder?

DCD is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects motor coordination — but “motor coordination” covers much more than most people realise. It includes:

  • Gross motor skills — running, jumping, balance, sport, navigating physical space
  • Fine motor skills — handwriting, using scissors, doing up buttons, picking up small objects
  • Motor planning — the ability to organise a sequence of physical actions before and while doing them
  • Proprioception — the sense of where your body is in space

Children with DCD often know what they want to do. Their bodies don’t reliably do it. The disconnect between intention and execution is not about effort or attention — it’s neurological, and it’s consistent.

It’s not just about being clumsy

“Clumsy” is the word that gets applied most often, and it’s both partially accurate and significantly undersells what DCD involves. The children who have it aren’t just bumping into furniture. They may:

  • Take significantly longer than peers to learn to ride a bike, tie shoelaces, or catch a ball — and in some cases, never fully automate these skills
  • Have handwriting that is slow, painful, and illegible — not from carelessness but from the genuine difficulty of coordinating the mechanical process of writing
  • Struggle to follow multi-step instructions in PE, craft, or science lab — because sequencing physical actions requires conscious effort that others do automatically
  • Appear disorganised in the physical world — losing things, forgetting where they put objects, misjudging distances
  • Become exhausted by physical tasks that take others no mental energy at all — because for a child with DCD, those tasks are not automatic

Social consequences follow. Sport is difficult, which matters enormously in childhood peer dynamics. Physical tasks that seem basic to others become sources of shame. The child is teased or excluded, or learns to avoid situations where their coordination will be visible.

What about the non-motor aspects?

This is the part that surprises people: DCD frequently involves significant difficulties beyond movement.

Children with DCD often struggle with:

  • Working memory — holding information in mind while doing something else
  • Processing speed — taking longer to respond to information even when they understand it
  • Organisational and planning skills — the executive function side of motor planning generalises to tasks that aren’t physical at all
  • Attention — DCD co-occurs with ADHD in a significant proportion of cases

The result is a child who may be struggling academically not because of a reading or maths difficulty specifically, but because the combined weight of motor difficulties, slower processing, and working memory challenges is affecting everything.

How is it identified?

DCD is diagnosed through assessment — typically including standardised measures of motor skills (the most common is the Movement Assessment Battery for Children, or MABC) alongside broader developmental and educational history. An occupational therapist is often the key professional involved, with input from educational psychologists.

In India, DCD falls under the umbrella of Specific Learning Disabilities in the RPwD Act 2016. It’s less frequently diagnosed than dyslexia or ADHD, partly because specialist assessment is less available and partly because awareness is lower among the professionals who would typically refer children for evaluation.

Do children grow out of it?

Not reliably. Significant longitudinal research shows that DCD persists into adulthood for the majority of children who have it. Adults with DCD may find workarounds — they type rather than write, they avoid physical activities that expose their difficulty, they develop strategies for the tasks that don’t come automatically. But the underlying neurological difference doesn’t disappear.

Early intervention with occupational therapy makes a real difference — not to “fix” DCD but to build the strategies and adaptations that allow the person to function in environments designed for different nervous systems.

What actually helps?

  • Occupational therapy — targeted work on the specific motor and planning difficulties, with strategies for daily life
  • Removing the performance pressure — children with DCD often do better when they’re not being watched or assessed, because the anxiety of observation makes coordination worse
  • Extra time for written tasks — handwriting is so much slower and more demanding that timed tasks are genuinely unfair
  • Keyboard access — typing offloads the motor planning demands of handwriting and often reveals the intellectual capability that poor handwriting was obscuring
  • Explicit teaching of sequences — things that others learn implicitly (how to hold scissors, how to organise a bag) often need to be taught directly and systematically
  • Believing the child — when a child says they can’t do something that seems simple, they usually mean it

A note on India

Physical education in Indian schools often means competitive sport. Craft activities in primary school involve fine motor precision. Science labs require careful physical coordination. None of these environments are designed with DCD in mind — and none of the adults supervising them are typically trained to recognise when a child’s difficulty is neurological rather than behavioural.

The child with DCD in an Indian classroom is often the one who can’t write fast enough, can’t play well enough, and can’t keep their desk organised — and is told, repeatedly, that they would be fine if they just paid more attention.

They’re paying attention. Their nervous system just works differently.

If you’d like to know more about supporting children with DCD in your school or home, get in touch.

The Misfit Collaborative works with Indian schools and families to build understanding and practical support for children across the full range of learning differences.

What Is Dyscalculia? (And Why It’s Not Just Being Bad at Maths)

By The Misfit Collaborative

When a child struggles to read, we have a word for it — dyslexia — and a reasonably well-known body of research behind that word. When the same child struggles to understand numbers, the response is usually very different: they just need to practise more. Maths is hard for everyone. They’re not trying.

Dyscalculia is a specific learning difference that affects how the brain processes numerical information. It’s as neurologically real as dyslexia. It’s significantly less recognised. And in schools where maths performance is heavily weighted and timed calculation tests are the norm, children with dyscalculia are quietly being failed at scale.

So what exactly is dyscalculia?

Dyscalculia affects a person’s ability to understand and work with numbers at a foundational level — not just the ability to do complex maths, but the basic sense of what numbers mean.

This is the part that surprises people. It’s not about forgetting multiplication tables or making careless errors. It’s about a genuine difficulty with number sense — the intuitive, automatic understanding of quantity that most people develop without thinking about it.

A child with dyscalculia might not be able to immediately “see” that 7 is more than 4 without counting. They may struggle to understand what a number like 47 actually represents spatially. They may find telling the time, managing money, estimating distances, or following timetables persistently difficult — not because they haven’t tried, but because the neural processing that makes these things automatic isn’t working the same way.

What does it look like?

No two children with dyscalculia present identically, but common patterns include:

Difficulty with number sense. Can’t quickly estimate which of two quantities is larger. Has to count rather than recognise small groups (this is called lack of subitising).

Trouble with sequencing and order. Struggles to recall number sequences, months of the year, or multi-step instructions in order.

Problems with time. Frequently late or confused about schedules. Difficulty estimating how long things take. Analogue clocks remain confusing well into secondary school.

Challenges with money. Struggles to calculate change, estimate costs, or manage a budget — even with numbers that seem simple to others.

Extreme maths anxiety. The kind that is physiological — heart rate, avoidance, shutdown — rather than just nervousness about tests.

Inconsistency. May get something right one day and wrong the next, which adults often read as not paying attention, when it actually reflects inconsistent access to information that’s not fully embedded.

What it isn’t

Dyscalculia is not low intelligence. Many people with dyscalculia are highly capable in other areas — including other aspects of maths that are less dependent on number sense, like geometry or algebraic reasoning.

It is also not the same as maths anxiety, though the two often co-exist and reinforce each other. A child can have maths anxiety without dyscalculia, and dyscalculia without significant anxiety — though years of struggling and being told to try harder tends to produce anxiety eventually.

And it is not laziness or avoidance for its own sake. Avoidance is a logical response to repeated failure in a subject that the entire school system treats as a measure of intelligence.

How common is it?

Estimates vary, but dyscalculia is thought to affect around 3–7% of the population — roughly the same prevalence as dyslexia. It co-occurs frequently with dyslexia, ADHD, and dyspraxia.

Despite similar prevalence to dyslexia, dyscalculia receives a fraction of the research attention and a fraction of the public awareness. Most teachers have heard of dyslexia. Far fewer have heard of dyscalculia. Many families navigate their child’s maths difficulties for years without ever encountering the word.

How is it identified?

Dyscalculia is identified through psychoeducational assessment — typically by an educational psychologist or neuropsychologist. Assessment looks at number sense, working memory, processing speed, and mathematical reasoning, alongside broader cognitive profiling.

In India, dyscalculia falls under Specific Learning Disabilities in the RPwD Act 2016. Students with a formal diagnosis can access accommodations including extra time and use of a calculator in board examinations — though awareness of this, and access to diagnosis, varies significantly.

What actually helps?

The good news is that targeted support does make a real difference. What works:

  • Explicit instruction in number sense — not more practice, but different practice. Using concrete materials (counters, number lines, blocks) to build the foundational understanding that others develop intuitively.
  • Reducing cognitive load — allowing calculator use for computation so cognitive energy can go to understanding.
  • Spatial approaches to maths — many people with dyscalculia respond better to visual and spatial representations of numerical concepts.
  • Removing timed tests — timed calculation is one of the most anxiety-inducing formats for dyscalculic learners, and one of the least useful measures of mathematical understanding.
  • Separating maths skills from maths anxiety — addressing the emotional layer is often as important as the cognitive one.

A note on India specifically

Indian school mathematics is heavily focused on calculation speed and procedural accuracy. Times tables by rote, mental maths tests, and competitive examinations that heavily weight maths performance — all of these create a particularly punishing environment for children with dyscalculia.

The result is often a child who is bright, capable, and increasingly convinced that they are not — because the one measure the system cares about is the one they cannot access reliably.

Understanding dyscalculia doesn’t fix the system. But it does mean you can stop telling a child to try harder at something their brain genuinely processes differently. That’s a start.

If you’re an educator or parent trying to understand what your school can do differently, we’d love to talk.

The Misfit Collaborative works with Indian schools and families to build genuine understanding of specific learning differences — not just awareness, but the practical capacity to change what happens in the classroom.

5 Books About Dyslexia That Are Actually Worth Your Time

TMC Takes: Book Recommendations

Dyslexia is one of the most common learning differences in the world, and one of the most misread. In a lot of Indian classrooms, a child who reads slowly or reverses letters still gets told to write lines or try harder — which solves nothing and teaches the child that something is fundamentally wrong with them.

These five books tell a different story. Between them, they cover the neuroscience, the lived experience, the strengths, and the systemic failures. Pick one and you’ll understand dyslexia better than most teachers currently do.

Quick answers:

Where to start? The Dyslexic Advantage if you want to lead with strengths; Overcoming Dyslexia if you want research and school navigation.

Is there a memoir? Yes — The Short Bus, by a dyslexic writer who is funny and furious in equal measure.

Is dyslexia covered by Indian law? It falls under Specific Learning Disabilities in the RPwD Act 2016. Schools are required to provide accommodations. How well that plays out in practice varies enormously — which is why being informed matters.

The List

1. The Dyslexic Advantage — Brock Eide & Fernette Eide

The Eides identify four cognitive strengths that appear consistently in dyslexic brains — they call them the MIND strengths: Material reasoning (3D thinking), Interconnected reasoning (big-picture pattern-making), Narrative reasoning (thinking in stories), Dynamic reasoning (predicting future outcomes). Their argument is not that dyslexia is without real challenges. It’s that the dyslexic brain is structured differently, not defectively — and that different has genuine advantages.

A genuinely useful reframe, and not a fluffy one.

Good for: Parents at any stage | Educators who want the whole picture | Dyslexic adults looking at their own history differently

2. Overcoming Dyslexia — Sally Shaywitz

Shaywitz is one of the most respected dyslexia researchers in the world, and this book is the most thorough evidence-based guide available — what dyslexia is neurologically, how it’s identified, what interventions actually work, and how to advocate within school systems.

If you need to walk into a school meeting and know your stuff, this is the one to read first.

Good for: Parents navigating assessment and school advocacy | Learning support educators | Anyone who wants the science

3. The Gift of Dyslexia — Ronald Davis

Davis’s approach is more alternative than mainstream — it’s built on the idea that dyslexic thinkers are primarily visual-spatial, and the Davis Method works with that. It’s less evidence-based than Shaywitz, and that’s worth knowing going in.

But as a perspective on the visual-spatial imagination many dyslexic people have — and as a way of seeing the child beyond the reading difficulty — it offers something genuinely useful.

Good for: Parents who want to explore different frameworks | Anyone who finds the clinical framing too narrow

4. Proust and the Squid — Maryanne Wolf

Wolf is a cognitive neuroscientist who writes beautifully about how the brain learns to read — what it demands, how it rewires itself, and what happens when that process looks different. The chapters on dyslexia explain, with real clarity, why the dyslexic brain isn’t failing at reading. It’s taking a different route — one with its own logic and its own costs.

Less a practical guide, more a book that changes how you think about reading itself.

Good for: Curious readers | Educators who want to understand reading at a neurological level

5. The Short Bus — Jonathan Mooney

Mooney has dyslexia and ADHD and didn’t learn to read until he was twelve. Then he went to Brown. After graduating, he bought a short school bus and drove across America talking to people who, like him, had ridden one — the symbol of the special education system and everything the “remediation” mindset represents.

It’s a road trip, a social critique, and a very funny book about a system that consistently mistakes different for broken.

Good for: Older students and adults with dyslexia | Parents questioning whether the support their child is getting is actually helping | Educators willing to sit with some uncomfortable questions

In Indian schools, dyslexic children are still routinely misread as low-effort or low-ability. The research in these books is not Western in its relevance — it describes brains, not cultures. The school systems vary. The neuroscience doesn’t.

Building dyslexia support in your school or looking for training that goes beyond a one-day awareness session? Talk to us.

TMC Takes: we recommend it because it’s good, not because it’s popular.